All women want to be happy and secure with their men, and the whole world would have us believe that it’s impossible, I protest against that. To me that is tantamount to saying bees need nectar from flowers but someone forgot to make flowers that produce nectar. Nature does not work in that way. If tigers, birds and a host of other animals can form monogamous pairs, how much more should that be true for humans?
I want to see a return to the majesty of womanhood and the revelation of the nobility of men. I am no relationship expert or well-educated woman or anyone more qualified than the next to speak about relationships, but I know that we can have better men than the ones we are dealing with right now. The only caveat is: How good of a woman are you?
We have to come back to where we love being women and just be what we are; and we most definitely have to learn to love the males of our species. We have been tricked into believing men are animals and now we’re stuck with the fruits of our own beliefs and it is not adding up to our happiness.
I love men because I love being a woman and by extension men love me. I have seen how a change in attitude and a change in belief can change the way men react toward me. I have been and am going through the highs and lows that life’s journey is made up of, but I grow from each experience. I come into better, more intimate, more loving, more authentic places with my man. I know of the nobility of all men, I know even when it goes against belief, against what my eyes and my world tell me about men and that unwavering knowing has lead me to places that I should long ago have given up on.
I know what it feels like to be cherished, to have a man feed me love, I am in the place where he provides for my soul and not just for my body and I had to teach myself how to get there. I had to step outside of what I thought I knew about men and I had to formulate my own concept of what a man must be because I needed to engage with a better, more dignified and noble man. I have not been disappointed yet.
I have seen things happen that should not have happened, miraculous changes in the attitudes and behaviour of the men around me. I have discovered things about men that I still marvel at and I want to share that with anyone who is willing to spend a few minutes reading my blog. I will never succumb to the belief in men as lowly creatures again, because I know that Nature would not take something as magnificent as a woman and not give her an equally magnificent mate.
It has been a hard journey because changing your mind patterns is difficult when you have to break away from the community mind that we are all plugged into. There have been moments when I just wanted to give up when nothing seemed to change, but I have always kept in my mind the analogy of the bees and flowers. In my mind there has to be a plan and there had to be a system that is inherently flawless, a manner in which men and women can live happily together and have all their needs met.
I don’t know everything there is to know yet, but I am steady moving in the direction of knowing more. I’d appreciate any feedback and I hope I can help make even the slightest improvement in someone’s relationship.
I love men and I believe that men are as good as the goodness that we see in them.